Have/ Hold is a series of self-portraits challenging traditional narratives and stigma around masculine intimacy.

While gay and queer representation in mainstream media increases, there remains a lack of exposure to–or celebration of–platonic “same-sex” intimacy. In response to western culture’s fear of physical closeness between men, trans* artists Lasky and Neilly invite the viewer to witness the undeniable romance of their decade-long friendship.

The nature of Lasky and Neilly’s relationship has long been questioned by onlookers. The ease with which they express vulnerability, adoration, and physical closeness has created its own narrative, upon which the artists consciously build. These large format images frustrate an erotic expectation while creating space for a new truth—a representation of platonic intimacy that has not been seen before.

Exhibitions

We Buy Gold, Gallery TPW, 2021

The Gender Conspiracy, Art Gallery of Burlington, 2019